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Latest Question Views Does there come a time when you just give up having sex with your Wife? In Sept of 2008 my wife was diagnosed with colon cancer. 4 months later I had some vertebrae in my back fused. Needless to say we went almost a year without having intercourse. She is 52 and I am 50. We use vibrators and toys to add to our sex lives. Anyway she seems to have lost any desire for sex. When I encouraged her to start having sex again she started of with just the toys and her rabbit toy caused her to have a little bleeding and pain. I also cause pain and bleeding when I am in her. I can be very patient and I have encouraged her to see a gynecologist and finally she promised me she would and that was 7 months ago. I am willing to do other things for her and myself until she is better. The last thing I want is for her to associate pain with sex. The thing is our family doctor prescribed vaginal estrogen cream to be used every other day and on her off days she takes a estrogen pill. By the way she had a hysterectomy 15 years ago. She has quit taking the estrogen gel because she says she forgets. I tell her all the time how beautiful I think she is and I caress her body and kiss her. She is a little over weight so I try my best to make her know that I love her very much and how beautiful she is and how much she turns me on. I do most of our cooking and house work and laundry. She seems to have no desire for sex and even when I have spent all day making hints and giving kind words to her and send her texts about having sex that night, she will almost always play along with the verbal foreplay all day but when it gets down to doing anything she is busy on the computer and then when I say anything about our sex date for the night she will say she is to tired or make up some other excuse. I recently had my urologist tell me that I should have 3 orgasms a week because of prostitus. I feel so frustrated and lonely I don't know what to do. I am trying not to masturbate by myself anymore because of religious reasons etc, So my only hope is for her to try and cooperate. I will masturbate in front of her but I would like her to ask me to and not make me beg. As far as her pain goes I told her that we wont use insert-able vibrators or have intercourse until she has seen a gyno and healed. I don't have a problem finding other ways to please each other. I am starting to think that maybe I just need to put that part of my life behind me and quit touching her and making comments about sex just to get rejected. Maybe I am just getting to a age where I should just move on without that physical affection that I so badly crave from her. Does anyone have any help or advise. Thanks Just for the record, she is now cancer free. She even went to her oncologist today and he said everything as far as the cancer is going great. The family doctor told her that it would take at least 3-4 months for the estrogen cream to work. But she needs to use it and I don't think she has used any in 3-4 months. I have told her lately that I don't feel loved by her and that I am feeling very down and lonely. She reassure's me that she loves me but the first thing she does when she comes home from work is to get on the computer while I fix and bring her dinner. Marriage & Divorce - 9 Answers - 2010-07-28 13:25:50 Would men cheat just due to lack of sex with wife? If a man isn't having much sex with his wife, could that lead to cheating? Even if the friendship part of the relationship is great? Marriage & Divorce - 19 Answers - 2009-03-07 20:58:22 Is it true that Dennis Rodman left the Pistons because Vinnie Johnson was having sex with his wife? It makes sense because he kinda lost sense of who he was after that and started dying his hair, got a bunch of piercings and tattoos after that happened. Q2: Is it worse to have sex with your teammates wife or your teammates mother? 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We also own a partnership with a promotional company that runs amature and professional boxing shows and boxing school, we are in the process of expanding the boxing school to include Professional wrestling and MMA. as well as building an arena in a 110,000 square foot building in downtown Philadelphia. HELP we need money to keep it going, building expenses bandwidth and maintaining our very succesfull search engine ranking is costing allot of money, we expect to be be able to break even within two years if we can get a 100,000$ investment. Investing - 1 Answers - 2007-09-09 21:52:20 I have an oracle 9i database which front-end is c#.net. It was working fine until I created another database.? Running the c#.NET gives error: Ora-01017: invalid username/password;logon denied. The program was working well before I created a second database. Programming & Design - 2 Answers - 2006-03-30 01:10:02 Unable to access data from secondary hard drive. I am receiving an "access denied" error message.? This hard drive was originally my main hard drive which had the Windows XP OS installed. I moved this to another computer to use as second data only drive. I set jumpers to slave drive is being read correctly I can see the file directory but when I try to open the files I receive an error message of "access denied". Please note this is not from the windows logon screen as this is a secondary data drive. However, when it was on my other computer the windows XP OS was password protected. Other - Hardware - 2 Answers - 2007-04-17 09:38:21 |